Connections

When having a conversation, follow these hints for a more meaningful connection.

Be yourself. You can’t go wrong with being yourself. Pretending to be someone you aren’t can lead your relationships to be built on lies and cause confusion in the future.

Be present. If you’re having a conversation with someone, your focus should be on them. You shouldn’t be looking at your phone or thinking about what you want for dinner.

Be a good listener. Think about how your conversations usually go with people: Do you interrupt their sentences? Are you judging them as they speak? Listening with an open mind lets you know them better.

Offer a smile. The person you’re conversing with could be nervous or have social anxiety. Offering them a smile when you greet them or as the conversation progresses shows that you’re having a good time.

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Gillian is a freelance writer specialising in articles, flash fiction and helping other writers. She runs a writing group (NightWriters) twice monthly and presents writers workshops. Gillian is also the convenor of the annual Writers Group Convention in Brisbane.